Saturday 4 November 2023

Beginning of November

 I went for a walk today and it is pleasantly not too cold. I like my walks, it is my thinking time, my talking in my head time. Other people listen to books or podcasts or music while walking. I prefer the quiet. 

We just returned from helping our dear friends for three days to set up their huge booth (more like a giant store) in Toronto at the Royal Agricultural Winter Fair. It is a big deal and goes for ten days I believe. We were only there during the designated set up days, so we did not have a chance to see the shows or exhibits or tour through all the many vendors and eating areas. People come from all across our big country bring the best of their best livestock, anything from beef cattle to dairy cattle to pigs, sheep, chickens, rabbits, alpacas, you name it. I hope our friends have fantastic success with their tack business this coming week.

I'm just throwing this out there, as when I shared about my breast cancer diagnosis and subsequent treatment, many of you had your own stories to share, which made me feel very good indeed. Now I am experiencing a side effect of taking the A.I. (which prohibits estrogen from being produced), that being significant hair thinning. Nobody warns you about this one. It is distressing, as I have always enjoyed caring for and styling my hair over the years. I did a bit of research and found out that manoxidil (the ingredient in Rogaine which is often used by men who are experiencing hair loss) can possibly help. This is not a result of chemo, as I did not have to have chemo. This is a result of the prescription that I am to be on for ten years (I may decide to not do the full ten years, but as of now, I am on it). So, any relatable tales or suggestions would be welcomed.

On a different note, I gave the girls a treat today. I had three pumpkins on my porch for decoration through October and today I brought one back to the chicken run and cut it apart with a shovel. 


Cautious exploration at first.


Definite interest now.

Not to be forgotten, here is a picture of Murphy in all of his glory. Son was making his work sandwich the night before and playfully tossed a wrapped piece of cheese on Murph's ample belly. He didn't care at all and would have casually laid there, cheese in place, for as long as was necessary.


Murphy isn't the only one with a penchant for lying on his back, underbelly exposed. Here is Scooter.


He is so fluffy it is hard to distinguish where his head is, but you can see one ear. The difference between the two cats is Scooter will adore a belly rub, whereas Murph will only tolerate it for a moment. 

I have a busy two weeks ahead, as I picked up seven consecutive teaching days at my old school, all in the same class. The lovely part about it, other than being in a familiar setting, is the teacher who will be away is the one to plan everything. I just have to execute the plan. Nice. 

Have a wonderful rest of your weekend, everybody!

44 comments:

  1. Hope you can find something to mitigate the hair loss. Hair thins as we get older anyway, so any extra must be distressing.

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    1. Yes, regular old menopause can cause hair thinning and this just makes it worse. I do know that it’s still a good thing to help prevent further cancer.

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    2. It is indeed. No hair is better than no life

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  2. Got no info re hair thinning, alas. Good luck!

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  3. Hi, I'm in the UK and had treatment for BC in 2015. Have commented before. I started on Letrozole (AI). Only managed 18months with the side effects. My consultant suggested switching to Tamoxifen and have found it much better. Taken it for over 6 years now, just get the occasional hot flush at night. My hair is finer but not thinning.
    Kathryn

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    1. That’s good to know and something I will keep in mind. Thank you very much for commenting!

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  4. I can't help with the meds, but had to make a comment on the cats. Murphy is adorable, but oh my goodness the floof on Scooter is out of control!

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    1. A fluffy cat (especially an outdoor one) is both a blessing and a curse, haha! He is very soft, but comes in with burrs and other bits stuck to him. Thankfully he is a sweet boy who lets us pick, comb, cut them out!

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  5. Mae, I like walking too... without music or anything... good time to think.
    As for the hairloss, I haven't had the problem (although at 78, I'm sure my hair is thinner). But I refused the Tamoxifen... took only lumpectomy and radiation. It's been 24 years... so far, so good.
    And I love pics of your chickens... and cats!!

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    1. You really are an inspiration for me. I do not think I will do the ten years as my oncologist says - five, perhaps.

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  6. I can relate to him laying on the floor too tired to move even with cheese on his belly. 😂

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    1. There are silly videos out there of people tossing a slice of cheese (the yucky processed, plasticky kind) on people's faces and they stick there. This was a variation on that.

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  7. Ahhh, those cats are so cute. Ours would never even let us touch her belly, and she would lay on her back as well.

    God bless.

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    1. Two categories (ha, ha... didn't even mean to do that!) of cats out there. Those that tolerate belly pets and those that don't.

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  8. Murphy and Scooter are adorable with their tummies on full display. Did Murphy eventually eat the cheese?

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    1. No, the cheese was still in its clear plastic wrapper. He is on calorie reduced cat food which is ridiculous because he hunts mice and eats those!

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  9. Seems like so often the cure brings problems of its own! As for thinning hair, mine started to thin several years ago. I started taking hair and nail vitamins (biotin) but it didn't help much. Then my doc said my thyroid number wasn't really low enough to cause problems but after talking to my sisters who had the same problem, I asked my doc for the thyroid medicine. It helped for sure but then in 2021 I noticed I was thinning again, even with the meds. Like you, I have always enjoyed my long, thick hair. So I began using minoxidil and it has really helped. I do have to use more conditioner.The downside is that once you start taking it you have to continue or you will lose that new hair. Also, don't fall for the women's version. It is more expensive and is exactly the same thing as the men's.

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    1. Hmmm so it sounds like it’s a good thing for hair loss but then you have to commit to it! Ughh what to do! And yes I also heard that it’s less expensive to get the men’s version. I just ordered mine from Amazon.

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    2. Good luck! My husband started using it too. He was just getting way more bald than he wanted. In 6 months I can see a definite difference. He's very happy with it.

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  10. Those cast sure do trust you guys - what a loving relaxed household they must be living in. Did the chickens eat the pumpkin flesh or just the seeds?

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    1. There were quite a few seeds on the ground when I went back to check. I think mostly they were pecking at the flesh.

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  11. In the olden days we had a sewer who used Rogain, and recommended we do so at the first sign of thinning hair. That is the end of my expertise.

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  12. My doctor suggested Rogaine years ago when I was under long term stress causing my hair to thin. I used to have masses of hair, but now I just live with thinner hair, decided not to fret. So that's one path!

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    1. I think I am just concerned because the reason for the hair loss will be something ongoing and I’m not sure how much hair I’m going to lose.

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  13. Your Royal Agricultural Winter Fair sounds just like our Royal Show, a perfect week of animals and agriculture in Melbourne. One day of the Show was a public holiday, excellent for families and school students in buses.

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    1. Yes, the two do sound similar. Apparently school groups from Toronto take little trips to tour it.

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  14. I used to like walking and just thinking about things but as I walk now I like to listen to YouTube podcasts. About all sorts of things from knitting to bigfoot. I find I walk further which is what I need to do at the moment

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    1. You probably walk farther than I do!! I’m usually about a half an hour at least five times a week. So, not far but frequent.

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  15. Sorry about the hair loss. I used to have a ton of hair but at my age now (89) my hair is much thinner. I, too, had breast cancer but at my age they would not do chemo so I am hoping that the lumpectomy will keep me healthy for a long while yet. I have a granddaughter-in-law who has lost most of her hair (she's in her 40s) so she wears a headband that has hair attached to it. Looks so cute and she feels more like being with people.

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    1. Oh my, that’s too bad for her, but the headband sounds like a good compromise.

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  16. I feel your frustration. I M not taking any medication, but my hair falls out like crazy. I have a bald spot in back. Yuck. We feed our pumpkins to the deer and they love it. Good luck subbing. Hope you find solution to your hair loss.

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  17. Murphy is hilarious, any of our pets would have devoured that cheese pack lol...I'm so sorry to hear about your hair loss Jenn. That must be frustrating and unnerving. ♥♥

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    1. I think it’s just that I don’t know how bad it’s going to get.

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  18. Your cats totally crack me up! Are you familiar with Sally Wessley from "Strands of Silver" substack blog? Sally hasn't had a hair reaction from medication but she does have alopecia (I think, where you lose your hair) and has written very eloquently about the challenges of this. (I'm not sure if her writing on this was on Strands of Silver or her previous blog). If you're interested in contacting her, I'm happy to put you in touch and I know she would be happy to share anything that might be common to you that would be useful. (I did find one post without digging too hard; it's mostly about the alopecia but I think she has written after about this: https://www.sallywessely.com/blog/my-alopecia-story She's a lovely woman and I know that from an emotional point of view she's had to deal with similar changes. Let me know if you want more info.

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    1. Thank you for this suggestion, but my issue is medication driven, due to lack of estrogen. I will be trying the “ rogaine “ to begin with and chat with the oncologist.

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  19. My hair is thinning I have started Biotin vitamin I find I am not losing it as quickly and it is early days yet. But mine is not from meds but I think age.
    I walk most days and I never listen to anything but the birds, the wind, nature I was at the ocean this summer and I saw so many running the beach with ear buds in why spend the money for a beach vacation to block out the sound of the ocean?
    Cathy

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  20. Wow. Nothing like not so full disclosure. I imagine it is a challenge. I wish I could help but of all the journeys of aging that is not one I have. But then I haven't dealt with cancer either. You are one strong woman!

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  21. Around these parts its not the chicken that get the pumpkins but the javelinas.

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  22. Always loved going to the Royal Winter Fair.. we went as school kids and I took my kids too. It finally got just too busy for me. Gigi

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  23. I hated those meds! I only had to take them for 5 years after my breast cancer diagnosis but I also had 4 chemo and 33 radiation treatments. I had completely lost my hair by the time I got to the taking the pills so I was just glad it grew back in! I can't tell you that I noticed it thinning. My main complaint was the body aches. I would switch between 3 different medications to try and give my body a break. Fighting cancer is not for sissies!

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    1. I should preface this reply with the fact that I am happy that you are I are alive to be able to bitch about the meds! HaHa! But yes, it's an odd medication in that I get side effects and hate them, and just when I think I can't take it any longer, they seem to dissipate. I had wicked aches and pains early on, but then they seemed to go away ( or move to a different part of my body). I am sorry to hear you had to have all those chemo and radiation treatments. Mostly I find them crappy because it just puts you back into a hospital setting and reminds you that you are indeed still a patient. Agreed, fighting cancer, of any kind, is not for sissies, but in the end you are faced with not a lot of choice. You never know how strong you can be until strength is your only option.

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